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How to Pay for Nursing Home Care

Four sources pay for nursing home care: private funds, a long-term care insurance policy, Medicare for up to 100 days, and Medicaid once someone has spent down. Medicaid is the largest payer in the country, and federal law protects the spouse who stays at home with a resource allowance and a monthly income allowance.

Settled Estate cover: how families pay for nursing home care
By Settled Estate Editorial Team

The short answer

Nursing home care is paid for in a sequence more often than it is chosen. Savings go first. Medicare covers a rehabilitation window after a hospital stay and then stops. A long-term care policy pays if someone bought one years ago. When the money runs low, Medicaid takes over.

Most families meet this sequence in the middle of it, after a fall or a stroke, with days rather than months to decide. Here is what each source actually does.

First, find out what it costs where you live

Skip the national averages. There is a better number and your state has already published it.

Ask the state Medicaid agency for its transfer penalty divisor. Federal law defines that figure as the average monthly cost to a private patient of nursing facility services in the state, so the state calculates and republishes it, usually every year. It is the closest thing to an official local price, and it is the same number the state will use against you if there were gifts in the last five years.

Medicare, which pays less than families expect

Medicare covers up to 100 days of skilled nursing facility care per benefit period, and only when it follows a hospital stay of at least three consecutive days as an inpatient. Custodial care, meaning ongoing help with bathing, dressing, and eating, is excluded from Medicare by statute.

A long nursing home stay is custodial care almost by definition, so Medicare covers the rehabilitation and not the residence. Our guide to what Medicare does and does not cover has the day-by-day costs and the observation-status trap that costs families the benefit entirely.

Private funds, including the house

Most families start here: Social Security, a pension, savings, and often the sale of a home. Two cautions before selling.

A home is generally not a counted asset for Medicaid eligibility while the person lives there and intends to return, and it is not counted at all when a spouse, a child under 21, or a blind or disabled child lives in it. Selling converts a protected asset into countable cash. That can be the right move, and it should be a decision rather than a reflex.

Federal law also caps home equity for eligibility purposes. For 2026 states set that limit somewhere between $752,000 and $1,130,000. The cap does not apply while a spouse or a dependent child lives in the home.

Long-term care insurance

A policy pays on the terms written into it, which usually means a daily benefit amount, an elimination period of some weeks before payments begin, and a lifetime maximum. Find the policy documents before calling the insurer, check whether the benefit is inflation-adjusted, and start the claim early, because the elimination period runs while the family is paying out of pocket. Buying a policy after care is already needed is not an option.

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Medicaid, and what it protects for the spouse at home

Medicaid pays for long-term nursing home care once someone meets a medical need test and a financial test. The financial test is where the fear lives, usually in the form of a belief that a couple has to lose everything so one of them can get care. Congress addressed that in 1988. Section 1924 of the Social Security Act contains what are called the spousal impoverishment rules.

These are the 2026 federal standards. Each state sets its own figures inside these floors and ceilings, so treat them as the range rather than as your answer.

2026 federal standardAmountWhat it does
Community spouse resource allowance$32,532 to $162,660Savings the spouse at home keeps
Monthly maintenance needs allowance$2,705 to $4,066.50Monthly income the spouse at home keeps, drawn from the other spouse's income if needed
Community spouse housing allowance$811.50Sets when the spouse at home qualifies for an excess shelter allowance
Income cap (300% of the SSI benefit rate)$2,982The monthly income limit in states that use an income cap
SSI resource standard, individual$2,000The countable-asset figure many states follow for an unmarried applicant

Source: CMCS Informational Bulletin, "Updated 2026 SSI and Spousal Impoverishment Standards," Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, April 27, 2026. The resource and SSI figures took effect January 1, 2026. The maintenance needs allowance and the housing allowance took effect July 1, 2026, because section 1924 ties them to the federal poverty level. Alaska and Hawaii carry higher allowances.

The practical reading: the spouse who stays home keeps the house, a car, a share of the couple's savings set by the state within that range, and enough monthly income to live on. What Medicaid counts, and how a state calculates the share, is where an elder-law attorney earns their fee.

Before you move any money

Medicaid reviews 60 months of gifts and below-market transfers before it pays. Anything given away inside that window creates a waiting period, and the waiting period does not begin until the person is already in the facility and already spent down. That timing is what turns a well-meant gift into a crisis.

Some transfers are exempt, including a home transferred to a spouse, to a disabled child, or to a caregiver child who lived there two years and provided the care that kept a parent out of a facility. Our guide to the look-back period covers the window, the penalty formula, and every exemption in the statute.

What happens after death

Once Medicaid has paid for long-term care for someone 55 or older, federal law requires the state to seek repayment from their estate. Whether the home is reachable depends on how the state defines an estate and who survives. Medicaid estate recovery covers that, with the rule for each state.

Frequently asked questions

Who actually pays for nursing home care?
Four sources. Private funds from savings, income, or a home sale. A long-term care insurance policy, if one was bought years earlier. Medicare, for up to 100 days of skilled nursing after a qualifying hospital stay and no longer. Medicaid, once someone has spent down to their state limits. Medicaid is the largest payer of nursing home care in the country.
Does the spouse at home have to go broke too?
No. Section 1924 of the Social Security Act protects the community spouse. For 2026 the spouse at home keeps a resource allowance set by the state between $32,532 and $162,660, plus a monthly income allowance between $2,705 and $4,066.50. Those are federal floors and ceilings; each state picks its own figures inside them.
Will Medicaid take the house while my parent is alive?
Generally no while they live there and intend to return, and a home is not counted at all when a spouse or certain dependents live in it. Federal law does set a home equity limit for eligibility, and for 2026 states set that between $752,000 and $1,130,000. What happens to the home after death is a separate rule called estate recovery.
How much does a nursing home cost where I live?
Ask the state Medicaid agency for its transfer penalty divisor. That figure is defined in federal law as the average monthly cost to a private patient of nursing facility services in the state, so the state has already calculated and published the number you want.
Should we give away assets before applying?
Not without advice. Medicaid reviews 60 months of gifts and below-market transfers before it pays, and a transfer inside that window creates a waiting period during which Medicaid will not pay for care. Some transfers are exempt, including a home going to a caregiver child who lived there two years.
Does Medicare pay if the stay is long?
No. Medicare covers up to 100 days of skilled nursing per benefit period and excludes custodial care by statute at 42 U.S.C. 1395y(a)(9). A long nursing home stay is custodial care almost by definition, so Medicare stops well before the bills do.

Information current as of August 18, 2026

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